Premier divorce and family law attorney Charles Jerome Ware is Maryland-based and nationally-respected for his impressive success in resolving difficult divorce and family law issues on behalf of his many satisfied clients. For an initial courtesy consultation, contact Attorney Charles Ware at (410) 720-6129 or (410) 730-5016, or www.charlesjeromeware.com. He can help you.
No matter your personality make-up, attitude, feelings, education or training, etc., divorce can be traumatic. I know from my intense representation of divorce clients very successfully for over 35 years in both Montgomery and Howard counties, as well as many other in-state and out-of-state jurisdictions.
In many marriages a series of stressful events can occur when the parties divorce, particularly when children are involved. As a result, the emotions involved with the changes that occur in divorce can frequently impair the parties efforts to make sound decisions. Along with having good attorneys on both sides, getting through a divorce may be easier if you are better informed generally about the process before it even begins. The following are just a few of many tips I give my clients to help them make it through this difficult process :
(1) In reality, no person actually and truly "wins" in a divorce; therefore, it is not a prudent attitude to expect to "win" your divorce. The better attitude for a person is, with my help, to expect to "successfully survive" your divorce.
(2) Do not make important or critical decisions in the divorce process without carefully thinking them through and without consulting your divorce attorney.
(3) Always remember: you and your spouse are the ones divorcing --- not your children. Saying cruel things about your estranged spouse around your children is not helpful for the children.
(4) I have found that every divorce I have been involved in, or know of, is or was unique, specifically in facts. Therefore, it is not a good idea to believe or act upon everything other people say to you about their divorce --- or even about your divorce.
(5) Through your divorce process, try to keep your eyes on the "big picture" (the significant goals you wish to attain, etc.).
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