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For even the most emotionally stoic individual, divorce can be very traumatic. The death of a marriage affects not only the two parties, but their children, other family and friends as well. Issues such as new living arrangements, parenting and other schedules, marital property and money must be dealt with , etc. The anxiety and emotions caused by these radical changes in people's lives can frequently make it difficult for the spouses involved to understand the complex legal process of divorce, and may even hinder their ability to make sound decisions. Getting through a divorce may be less stressful if the parties involved are informed about this legal process before it begins. Let's talk about it :
(1) Your goal should be to " successfully survive" your divorce , not to "win" it.
In my more than 35 years of very successfully representing thousands of good people going through the divorce process, I have rarely ever seen a case where there was a true "winner", even though my clients usually fare extremely well, as far it goes. Calm down, enhance your poise, and work around your anger and anxiety.
(2) Do not panic; and do not make important decisions without seeking competent advice and thinking the decisions through carefully.
Many life-changing decisions come up during the divorce process. Whether to sell the family home, child custody and visitation decisions, marital property division, etc., are all important issues. Resist the temptation or impulse to make quick decisions "just to get the case over with." Always consider the potential consequences of your decisions.
(3) Beware the "gossip mongers", "rubberneckers", "know-it-alls" and other untrained "divorce experts", etc. Do not believe everything other people tell you about their divorce and about other couples' divorces.
In my more than 35 years of representing clients in the divorce process I have observed and learned that each and every divorce is unique in its facts and outcomes. No two divorces are the same in circumstance. Keep that thought in mind when going through your divorce. It is best to base your decisions in your divorce process on your experiences, not totally on someone else's experiences.
(4) Prepare for your divorce with your "big picture" in mind.
Focus not so much on the past; but prepare strategically for your future. Move forward with your life, with your "big picture" in mind. You can make well-considered concessions on small issues, and spend more time, energy and thought on the more important matters.
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